Pulling Power Weekend Seminar with Peta Heskell (aka The Flirt Coach)
The lady herself
Peta's street-wise, adventurous, wild, fun loving, storytelling, spiritual and feisty woman with a high-powered energy and a very earthy sense of humour! She's led life in the fastest lanes and is now living her best adventure ever - that of her own life. Being herself and realising her potential as she inspires other to do the same. She’s written a wide range of books on the subject, including The Secrets of Attraction and The Flirt Coach, which has alone sold over 55,000 copies!
So when Peta, a client at Total Raw Food, invited me to come along and hang-out on her flirt weekend as a special guest (a guest being someone that pays, and a special guest being someone that doesn’t!!) I was excited and intrigued as to what would unfold….
I turned up at the London based hotel, opposite the beautiful Hyde Park, wondering what on earth to expect! Peta had ordered a Raw Chocolate Love Cake for everyone to share on the final day, so I staggered in, swamped by a big white cake box!
The weekend was ran by Peta and her fantastic ‘life coach’ assistants, who all warmly welcomed me, whipping the raw choccie cake from my hands, to my relief, and their delight! The foyer was crammed full of anxious people making chit-chat, or shit-tak, as I prefer to call it! The air buzzed with anticipation, as people registered themselves in, and eagly awaited The Flirt Coach's presence.
There were a mix of guys and gals, although many more guys than girls – so it would have been a great place for a single girl, on the lookout for ‘relationship material,’ or quite possibly even something a little more casual – dare I say!
The seminar got off to a cracking start with Peta’s fantastic, energy, and her contagious loud laugh that rivals my own. Before too long we were thrown from our seats into an embarrassingly entertaining exercise of moving round the room, greeting members of the opposite sex with a hand shake and the golden words of… “Well hello gorgeous god!” to which he would reply “Well hello gorgeous goddess!” It was a successful icebreaker, and I laughed my self through the task, half at the requirements of the exercise, and half at some of the men who looked totally out of their comfort zone!
Peta talked in depth about attracting the opposite sex, and her own experiences of being The Flirt Coach. This is the part that I absolutely loved the most; I could sit for hours listening to her hilarious anecdotes.
Shake that booty!
Well to my surprise, on the full time table of activities was in fact a Salsa lesson. Introducing guests to one of the most sexually fused genres of dancing on earth. The Salsa teacher was an expert in his field, and I enjoyed watching the row in front fall over each other and trip up continually, until it became second nature. Before too long, there was a room full of salsa dancers, spinning and cavorting all over the dance floor. One of the things that we were asked to do was to elegantly take a partner off someone – should we like the look of them more. It was fantastic to watch the shy guys attempting this for the first time – that would have been worth the £297 workshop cost alone for the observer!
We did other types of movement work throughout the weekend – which thrilled me to bits, all of it pretty light hearted, but great for initial interaction. In no time at all, the group was behaving like it had known each other for decades, as people laughed and interacted.
I decided to mono eat during the lunch times of the course, for ease, and to keep my head nice and clear to take in all the fab bits of information. A group of us went and sat in Hyde Park, during our lunch break, where the chats and laughs freely flowed.
Although I was one of the only people on the course who were settled in secure relationship, it fascinated me how this course was still fully suitable and accommodated my situation so well. The body language part especially was so worthwhile, and not only was it entertaining, but it was stuff that we all could benefit from knowing. I certainly have taken much away with me from this aspect of the seminar.
I loved the way that on the final day, after our daily dance class, participants of the workshop were faced with choices of small groups to join, which were led by experienced coaches. The choice varied from seduction techniques, to postural speaking. I joined the latter, to find out more… The purely extravert guy leading the group decided to use me as a guinea-pig, to demonstrate how someone can do a ‘killer look’ that can melt the person it’s thrown at! For this, he hypnotised me. I’ve never been ‘under’ before, so I was keen to see if it would work. One thing that stood out was his voice. His voice was so incredible, that the way he was talking to me felt like he had taken my brain out of my head and was massaging it! The pitch of his voice alone sent me into a trance-like state. It was powerful stuff. He was asking me to do exercises with my thoughts; before I had to open my eyes, and give the first guy I saw (the poor man sitting opposite me) a ‘killer look.’ I knew how great I felt on the inside, but I didn’t know if it would work or not as a task.
As I opened my eyes, I did everything and more that I was told to. The guy I threw my look at looked scared to me, as the rest of the group observing made a bit of a commotion! At the end, the man who got ‘the look’ came to speak to me. He said that it was so powerful; he was left speechless for a while! This surprised me, as I wasn’t sure to what degree it had had worked.
As I sit here reflecting on the weekend of self-development and conscious improvement, I feel blessed to have been invited on what was for most on the course… A life-changing experience.
For more information on Peta, and how she can increase your Pulling Power visit Attraction Academy or call her directly on 0845 370 7271.